We had a bit of a rough start to 2014 and a tough few months before that with one thing and another. Initially Chris and I didn’t cope so well together in the face of life throwing things at us but eventually we started communicating better and now it feels as though we are united, a team and ready to face whatever 2014 sends our way – however hard it might be.
We have talked a lot about what we want to raise our children believing – So here are the three essential values we want them to grow up with:
Kindness is the single most important characteristic to me. Being kind and choosing to believe the best in people is harder than it sounds. It’s so easy to let cynicism, anger or hurt influence how you treat people. We will strive to be kind in everything we do and be kind to each other when we don’t quite manage it.
Treating people fairly is so important – this doesn’t always mean to treat them equally because everyone’s needs aren’t the same – but to strive to be fair in everything we do.
Loving people is so important to me. Making all our decisions based on loving people more than money will hopefully help us be kind and fair. We believe that when people start loving money more than people they lose focus on what is important. We strive to see the value in people and put that above possessions and wealth.
So, like all good things in life we will be working hard to live by these values, and impart them to our children, and probably failing frequently – but it’s good to have dreams and ambitions isn’t it?